{"id":110,"date":"2020-04-21T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/?p=110"},"modified":"2020-04-14T14:50:22","modified_gmt":"2020-04-14T12:50:22","slug":"jak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/2020\/04\/21\/jak\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak komunikovat s batoletem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
\"jak<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

V\u010dera se mi stalo n\u011bco, co m\u011b vedlo k zamy\u0161len\u00ed o tom, jak komunikovat s batoletem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160la jsem se synem poprv\u00e9 od vyhl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed nouzov\u00e9ho stavu<\/a> na n\u00e1kup (jindy jsem chodila jen j\u00e1 nebo man\u017eel). U\u0161ila jsem mu rou\u0161ku, ve kter\u00e9 m\u011bl dudl\u00edk, abych m\u011bla jistotu, \u017ee si ji nebude sund\u00e1vat. Celou cestu do obchodu ji m\u011bl vzorn\u011b nasazenou. Ale jako naschv\u00e1l ji za\u010dal bojkotovat<\/strong>, kdy\u017e jsme p\u0159i\u0161li do obchodu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Abych mu n\u011bjak domluvila, sl\u00edbila jsem mu, \u017ee kdy\u017e m\u011b te\u010f nech\u00e1 v klidu nakupovat, odpoledne p\u016fjdeme na proch\u00e1zku a bude moct j\u00edt, kam se mu bude cht\u00edt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zabralo to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nakoupila jsem, doma jsem uva\u0159ila ob\u011bd. Syn se vyspal. A pak byl cel\u00e9 odpoledne uk\u0148ouran\u00fd, nic ho nebavilo. Marn\u011b jsem si l\u00e1mala hlavu nad t\u00edm, co ho tr\u00e1p\u00ed. Vym\u00fd\u0161lela jsem spoustu aktivit, jak ho zabavit. K ni\u010demu to nebylo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nave\u010der se syn nalepil k oknu a v podstat\u011b nep\u0159est\u00e1val k\u0148ourat. A tehdy mi to kone\u010dn\u011b do\u0161lo! Dopoledne jsem mu sl\u00edbila, \u017ee p\u016fjdeme ven, a te\u010f nedost\u00e1la sv\u00e9mu slovu! Obl\u00e9kla jsem ho a vydali jsme se na kr\u00e1tkou proch\u00e1zku kolem domu. Sta\u010dilo patn\u00e1ct minut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dom\u016f se vr\u00e1til jako vym\u011bn\u011bn\u00fd a mn\u011b to znovu p\u0159ipomn\u011blo, jak moc je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 b\u00fdt k d\u011btem pravdiv\u00fd a dost\u00e1t sv\u00e9mu slovu<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

U\u017e d\u0159\u00edv jsem si pro sebe stanovila n\u011bkolik pravidel, jak komunikovat s batoletem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1m synovi v\u011bci narovinu. <\/strong>Kdy\u017e m\u011b nebav\u00ed si s n\u00edm hr\u00e1t \u0159eknu to a nehled\u00e1m v\u00fdmluvy, pro\u010d zrovna nem\u016f\u017eu. Kdy\u017e pot\u0159ebuji, aby spolupracoval, \u0159eknu to. Kdy\u017e nev\u00edm, kdy zase budeme moct chodit na krou\u017eky, \u0159eknu to. A nevym\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm si.<\/li>
  2. Co sl\u00edb\u00edm, to spln\u00edm.<\/strong> A\u0165 u\u017e je to n\u011bco pozitivn\u00edho nebo negativn\u00edho. Kdy\u017e \u0159eknu, \u017ee se odpoledne p\u016fjdeme proj\u00edt, tak p\u016fjdeme. Kdy\u017e \u0159eknu, \u017ee jestli je\u0161t\u011b jednou zatah\u00e1 ko\u010dku za ocas, vezmu mu dudl\u00edk na span\u00ed, prost\u011b to ud\u011bl\u00e1m. <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Nelhat d\u011btem a dodr\u017eovat slovo v ka\u017edodenn\u00edch situac\u00edch<\/strong> je podle mn\u011b mnohem d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e si l\u00e1mat hlavu nad t\u00edm, jestli d\u011btem \u0159\u00edkat, \u017ee Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ek neexistuje a velikono\u010dn\u00ed z\u00e1j\u00ed\u010dek nenos\u00ed sladkosti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jak to vn\u00edm\u00e1te vy? Budu moc r\u00e1da, kdy\u017e mi nap\u00ed\u0161ete do koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    V\u010dera se mi stalo n\u011bco, co m\u011b vedlo k zamy\u0161len\u00ed o tom, jak komunikovat s batoletem. \u0160la jsem se synem poprv\u00e9 od vyhl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed nouzov\u00e9ho stavu na n\u00e1kup (jindy jsem chodila jen j\u00e1 nebo man\u017eel). U\u0161ila jsem mu rou\u0161ku, ve kter\u00e9 m\u011bl dudl\u00edk, abych m\u011bla jistotu, \u017ee si ji nebude sund\u00e1vat. Celou cestu do obchodu ji […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":144,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[9,35,36],"class_list":["post-110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene","tag-batole","tag-jak-komunikovat-s-batoletem","tag-komunikace"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nasemontessori.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/montessori_doma-6-of-11-1.jpg?fit=1500%2C1000&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=110"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":169,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110\/revisions\/169"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}