{"id":170,"date":"2020-05-20T10:18:41","date_gmt":"2020-05-20T08:18:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/?p=170"},"modified":"2020-05-20T13:31:59","modified_gmt":"2020-05-20T11:31:59","slug":"jak-nastavit-hranice-pro-batole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/2020\/05\/20\/jak-nastavit-hranice-pro-batole\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak nastavit hranice pro batole"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Tentokr\u00e1t se zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na to, jak nastavit hranice pro batole tak, aby je akceptovalo a jejich vym\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed se setkalo s co nejmen\u0161\u00edm odporem. K tomu v\u00fdrazn\u011b pomohou n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed t\u0159i kroky:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Mus\u00ed b\u00fdt jasn\u00e9, kde hranice le\u017e\u00ed.<\/strong> D\u00edt\u011b mus\u00ed p\u0159esn\u011b v\u011bd\u011bt, co sm\u00ed a co u\u017e ne. Pro d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 se terpve sna\u017e\u00ed zorientovat ve sv\u011bt\u011b, je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 pracovat s t\u00edm, \u017ee n\u011bkdy n\u011bco sm\u00ed a jindy ne. V takov\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech se jejich frustrace projevuje t\u00edm, \u017ee se za\u010dnou vztekat. <\/li>
  2. Vy\u017eadujte dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed nastaven\u00fdch hranic.<\/strong> Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee v\u00e1s d\u011bti budou zkou\u0161et, ale va\u0161\u00ed prac\u00ed jako rodi\u010de je nepovolit a trvat na tom, co jste \u0159ekli. Kdy\u017e ustoup\u00edte, d\u00edt\u011b si to zapamatuje a p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b to bude zkou\u0161et znovu. Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b se p\u0159i z\u00e1kazu neobejdete bez d\u011btsk\u00e9ho pl\u00e1\u010de nebo vztek\u00e1n\u00ed. Ale je to d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd moment, kdy se d\u00edt\u011b u\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee ve sv\u011bt\u011b nen\u00ed v\u017edy v\u0161echno podle n\u011bj. Nepovolujte. Ale bu\u010fte na d\u00edt\u011b laskav\u00ed<\/a> a vyj\u00e1d\u0159ete pochopen\u00ed pro to, \u017ee se mu to nel\u00edb\u00ed. <\/li>
  3. N\u00e1sledky p\u0159i nedodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic by m\u011bly b\u00fdt logick\u00e9 a odpov\u00eddat v\u011bku d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/strong> Kdy\u017e s jednolet\u00fdm batoletem nebudete p\u016fl dne mluvit za to, \u017ee rozlilo vodu, nen\u00ed to \u00fapln\u011b adekv\u00e1tn\u00ed. Stejn\u011b tak si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b do ve\u010dera nebude pamatovat, \u017ee mu ne\u010dtete poh\u00e1dku, proto\u017ee r\u00e1no tahalo ko\u010dku za ocas. D\u016fsledek by m\u011bl p\u0159ij\u00edt okam\u017eit\u011b, aby m\u011bl v\u00fdchovn\u00fd efekt. <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    I kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b bude roz\u010dilovat, plakat nebo vztekat, nechte ho jeho emoce pro\u017e\u00edt. Jedn\u00edm z Montessori hesel je to, \u017ee toleruje v\u0161echny emoce, ale ne v\u0161echno chov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/strong>. Jak jsem ji\u017e zm\u00ednila v\u00fd\u0161e, p\u0159i vztek\u00e1n\u00ed bu\u010fte u d\u00edt\u011bte a bu\u010fte mu oporou. Ne\u0159\u00edkejte v\u011bty typu: „P\u0159esta\u0148, v\u017edy\u0165 se nic nestalo,“ ale uznejte, \u017ee je rozzloben\u00e9: „Vid\u00edm, \u017ee t\u011b hodn\u011b rozzlobilo to, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017ee\u0161 h\u00e1zet se skleni\u010dkou.“ D\u00edt\u011b tak z\u00edsk\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee jste na jeho stran\u011b a \u017ee jeho pocity jsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pokud se d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1, nem\u00e1 cenu mu v danou chv\u00edli d\u00e1vat k\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed nebo po n\u011bm cht\u00edt, a\u0165 svou chybu naprav\u00ed. Nejprve po\u010dkejte, a\u017e se uklidn\u00ed. Ale pak vy\u017eadujte n\u00e1pravu, op\u011bt adekv\u00e1tn\u011b v\u011bku. Nechcte ho um\u00fdt pokreslenou ze\u010f, vy\u017eadujte, a\u0165 se jde omluvit d\u00edt\u011bti, kter\u00e9 pra\u0161til apod.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A nezapome\u0148te d\u00edt\u011b obejmout, a\u0165 v\u00ed, \u017ee ho milujete i navzdory chyb\u00e1m, kter\u00e9 ud\u011bl\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Aplikujete podobn\u00e9 principy, jak nastavit hranice pro d\u00edt\u011b? Co jin\u00e9ho se v\u00e1m osv\u011bd\u010dilo? Napi\u0161te mi do koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Tentokr\u00e1t se zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na to, jak nastavit hranice pro batole tak, aby je akceptovalo a jejich vym\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed se setkalo s co nejmen\u0161\u00edm odporem. K tomu v\u00fdrazn\u011b pomohou n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed t\u0159i kroky: Mus\u00ed b\u00fdt jasn\u00e9, kde hranice le\u017e\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b mus\u00ed p\u0159esn\u011b v\u011bd\u011bt, co sm\u00ed a co u\u017e ne. Pro d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 se terpve sna\u017e\u00ed zorientovat ve sv\u011bt\u011b, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":195,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nasemontessori.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/20200520104004_IMG_6992-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1440&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=170"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/170\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":198,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/170\/revisions\/198"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/195"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}