{"id":224,"date":"2021-04-19T12:51:17","date_gmt":"2021-04-19T10:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/?p=224"},"modified":"2021-04-19T12:57:23","modified_gmt":"2021-04-19T10:57:23","slug":"proc-se-moje-dite-vzteka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/2021\/04\/19\/proc-se-moje-dite-vzteka\/","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d se moje d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
\"Pro\u010d<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

„Pro\u010d se moje d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1?“ P\u0159esn\u011b takov\u00fd dotaz jsem dostala o v\u00edkendu. D\u00edt\u011b do t\u00e9 doby bylo zlat\u00e9, samo si hr\u00e1lo a maminka o n\u011bm skoro nev\u011bd\u011bla. D\u00edt\u011bti je kolem dvou let, tak\u017ee se dost\u00e1v\u00e1 do tolik ob\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00e9ho obdob\u00ed vzdoru, kdy si za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 uv\u011bdomovat samo sebe a sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a sna\u017e\u00ed se je vym\u00e1hat na sv\u00e9m okol\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V tu dobu si tak\u00e9 za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 uv\u011bdomovat, \u017ee je jin\u00e9 ne\u017e dosp\u011bl\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco oni si zvl\u00e1dnou obl\u00e9knout kalhoty, ani\u017e by nad t\u00edm p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli, a zv\u00e1dnou j\u00edst tak, aby z\u016fstali \u010dist\u00ed, i kdy\u017e se sna\u017e\u00ed zkrotit \u0161pagety na tal\u00ed\u0159i, d\u00edt\u011b nic takov\u00e9ho neum\u00ed. Chce se zoufale moc podobat sv\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm, a p\u0159itom je tak jin\u00e9. To d\u011bti vede k frustraci. Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 pokud je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b verb\u00e1ln\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A pr\u00e1v\u011b frustrace z toho, \u017ee m\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e1 mu rodi\u010de nepln\u00ed (a\u0165 u\u017e proto, \u017ee mu nerozum\u00ed, nebo proto, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti prost\u011b splnit nemohou nebo necht\u011bj\u00ed), a uv\u011bdomuje si, jak je jin\u00e9, vedou k on\u011bm ob\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00fdm z\u00e1chvat\u016fm vzteku, kter\u00e9 se za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed objevovat kolem druh\u00e9ho roku \u017eivota. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pozitivn\u00ed zpr\u00e1vou je, \u017ee velk\u00e9mu mno\u017estv\u00ed vztek\u00e1n\u00ed jde p\u0159edej\u00edt! Bude to st\u00e1t trochu nerv\u016f a \u010dasu, ale ur\u010dit\u011b to stoj\u00ed za to. Tak\u017ee jak na to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Nechte d\u00edt\u011b, a\u0165 je co nejv\u00edc samostatn\u00e9.<\/strong> Pokud se dr\u017e\u00edte Montessori z\u00e1sad, nebude to pro v\u00e1s nejsp\u00ed\u0161 \u017e\u00e1dnou novinkou. Ale pokud se s touto pedagogikou teprve seznamujete, doporu\u010duji se rozhl\u00e9dnout po dom\u00e1cnosti a proj\u00edt si v\u0161echny aktivity, kter\u00e9 pro d\u00edt\u011b d\u011bl\u00e1te (nalijete mu vodu, pov\u011bs\u00edte bundu na h\u00e1\u010dek, spl\u00e1chnete, vyberete sva\u010dinu…) a zamyslet se nad t\u00edm, jak tyto aktivity postupn\u011b zp\u0159\u00edstupnit, aby je (nebo alespo\u0148 jejich \u010d\u00e1st) mohlo d\u011blat samo. <\/li>
  2. Nechte si na v\u0161echny \u010dinnosti v\u00edc \u010dasu, aby v\u00e1m s nimi d\u00edt\u011b mohlo pom\u00e1hat.<\/strong> Ani v\u00e1m nebudu vypr\u00e1v\u011bt, kolikr\u00e1t jsme se zdr\u017eeli t\u0159eba jen u dve\u0159\u00ed, kdy\u017e se syn sna\u017eil trefit kl\u00ed\u010dem do z\u00e1mku. Ale ta hrdost v jeho o\u010d\u00edch, kdy\u017e se to kone\u010dn\u011b povedlo, st\u00e1la za v\u0161echno \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/li>
  3. Sna\u017ete se d\u00edt\u011bti naslouchat<\/strong>, a\u0165 v\u00ed, \u017ee se opravdu sna\u017e\u00edte p\u0159ij\u00edt na to, co chce, i kdy\u017e mu t\u0159eba po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nerozum\u00edte<\/a>. Sedn\u011bte si k n\u011bmu, a\u0165 jste na jeho \u00farovni. Naslouchejte a sna\u017ete se pojmenov\u00e1vat, co by mohl cht\u00edt. Odbour\u00e1te t\u00edm alespo\u0148 \u010d\u00e1st frustrace, kterou by d\u00edt\u011b mohlo c\u00edtit kv\u016fli tomu, \u017ee se je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed p\u0159esn\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159it. <\/li>
  4. Kdy\u017e u\u017e se vztekat za\u010dne, sedn\u011bte si k n\u011bmu a nechte ho vztek pro\u017e\u00edt.<\/strong> Neok\u0159ikujte ho, ani nek\u00e1rejte. Emoce, a\u0165 u\u017e ty kladn\u00e9 nebo negativn\u00ed, pat\u0159\u00ed k \u017eivotu. A z dlouhodob\u00e9ho hlediska je mnohem zdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ventilovat je ven, ne\u017e je v sob\u011b potla\u010dovat.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    M\u00e1te n\u011bjak\u00e9 tipy, kter\u00e9 se v\u00e1m osv\u011bd\u010dily, kdy\u017e za\u010dalo m\u00edt va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b z\u00e1chvaty vzteku? A jak reagovat na to, kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1? Budu moc r\u00e1da, kdy\u017e se o n\u011b pod\u011bl\u00edte v koment\u00e1\u0159\u00edch nebo na Instagramu<\/a>, abychom se v\u0161ichni nau\u010dili n\u011bco nov\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    „Pro\u010d se moje d\u00edt\u011b vztek\u00e1?“ P\u0159esn\u011b takov\u00fd dotaz jsem dostala o v\u00edkendu. D\u00edt\u011b do t\u00e9 doby bylo zlat\u00e9, samo si hr\u00e1lo a maminka o n\u011bm skoro nev\u011bd\u011bla. D\u00edt\u011bti je kolem dvou let, tak\u017ee se dost\u00e1v\u00e1 do tolik ob\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00e9ho obdob\u00ed vzdoru, kdy si za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 uv\u011bdomovat samo sebe a sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a sna\u017e\u00ed se je vym\u00e1hat na […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":227,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nasemontessori.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/20210302113441_IMG_7106-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1707&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=224"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":231,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/224\/revisions\/231"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/227"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nasemontessori.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}